Change Your Life Forever Podcast

Be The Best You Can Be And Do It Now

July 16, 2020 Scott
Change Your Life Forever Podcast
Be The Best You Can Be And Do It Now
Show Notes Transcript

Todays episode is all about - be the best you can be and do it now. Concentrating on going out there in life and being the best at everything you can possibly can. Because when you take control of your life and test and challenge yourself, life does become amazing.

To try your hardest at everything you do will build your character to the max and your personal development will take a massive jump. So if you are struggling in life turn it around and become the best parent, worker, runner or whatever it is you do.

All the best Scott at changeyourlifeforever.co.uk

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Hi, there and welcome to changeyourlifeforever.co.uk. It's Scott your host speaking. And today we're going to talk about being the best you can be and that doesn't actually mean that you have to be number one, by the way, all it means is that you go out and you try hard in life. You try your hardest at absolutely everything that you can possibly do. And it doesn't matter what it is in life, whether it's boring, whether it's tedious, whether it's something you don't want to do, setting yourself up to challenge yourself in every single opportunity that you have in life will really stand you in great stead.

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It means finding out more about yourself, understanding yourself, being self-critical to yourself. Cause when you can criticize yourself and you can see that you need to develop and develop in different ways, through communicating with people, being kind, being supportive, being the fastest runner or wherever it is, if you can analyze how you react to a situation and you can look at it and say, yeah, I could have done better, but to do. Then you will become an amazing person.

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And what happens is, you know, as well as I do that, people are cruel out there and people love to criticize others. And especially where social media is, is around nowadays is people find it actually fun to put other people down, which means that if you're self criticizing yourself in the first place, then it is easier to accept criticism from other people because you've recognized that in yourself, you know, and sometimes we can do things, you know, we can say on kind things to people we don't mean that we need to take back.

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And it's like recognizing who you are as a person and being proud of who you are and making sure that for everything that you do in every day party or life, you become better at it. You know, it's like a simple thing like parents and you know, sometimes kids wind us up that much that you probably end up shouting at them. You probably go to bed later on feeling guilty about it, but recognizing that you did something wrong there and it's not actually the child that is causing the problem. It's just the fact we're probably knackered.

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We probably just want them to go to bed and it is and our own minds that start to think those things and create the issue in the first place. You know? So looking after yourself and challenging yourself every single day to be a better person, to be better at work to be better, what, what you're doing in the future will really, really pay off by you understanding more about yourself, what you're capable of, what you can achieve. You will build a level of confidence in yourself that is second to none.

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And if you ever walked in and seen somebody that's walked into a room and gone, Oh my God, look at them. They light that room up. That's because that person knows who they are. They know that everything that they do, they are doing the best that they can. I think sometimes it's easy in life results, get complacent. You know, we get a job and we think, yeah, I'll work my nine to five or go home put my feet up on the tele or put my feet up and watch the telly. And you know, just let life pass us by, but life should be fun.

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It should be amazing. It should be something that we all wake up in the morning and looking forward to the day, looking forward to go and, and making the world a little bit of a better place, challenging ourselves, you know, doing things that make us feel alive, sharing our stories with other people, you know, competing in things. You know, just making sure that we stay on top of ourselves because it's easy to look at life and go yeah. This is rubbish. You know, I'm not achieving what I want.

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You know, I'm not getting that pay rise. I'm not getting the job that I want. But when you go out there to be the best that you possibly can understand more about yourself, then you become a really, really powerful person. And you become somebody that is so focused on achieving what they want in life. That every time that you go for it, you will overcome all the obstacles. You will overcome all the challenges and you will be the person that gets all the rewards in life.

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You will be that person that is so confident that even if you fail, you will move your confidence onto the next thing. And you'll know, next time you won't fail and you'll learn from that experience and you'll do better. And you'll find a way to get what you want. So being the best you can be. Absolutely everything is really, really important. And you know, I remember an example once I was kind of working in a metal pressing factory, you know, and it was laborious, like it's stick your foot on a, on a machine and you put a piece of metal in and this big thing would come down.

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It cuts it out. Now when you look at it and you could say, nah, this is crap. You know, it's rubbish. I hate this job. It's an absolute nightmare. You know, I don't want to do it anymore. Or you can look at it and go, okay, how can I make this fun? We started doing was we started competing with each other and impressing the metal and flicking it and flagging it. And you know, all of a sudden we were having a right laugh by making it fun. And I actually become one of the best metal, pressers there was there. Then they offered me a full time job because they was so impressed about how I did, but when do you want to be the best at something that you just challenge yourself with?

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Absolutely everything in life. You challenge yourself to become better at absolutely everything. And it's a really great quality that if you can harness, you will come out on top of everybody else in life. So when you get out there, if you're washing the dishes, don't matter what you're doing, what job it is just do it to the best of your ability. Look back on it. Be proud of yourself, Pat yourself on the back, give yourself a reward, give yourself recognition, work out how you can do better next time and just go out there and smash life.

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Enjoy it and be the best you can be. So that's it for today's podcast. Always go and check out the blog. at changeyourlifeforever.co.uk/blog, where I release lots of articles and lots of hints and tips on improving in your life and moving forward. So take care and I'll speak to you again very soon. Best wishes, Scott.